For
Ora and Nechemia, it was love at first sight. They felt they were meant
to be together. But just as they began to build their life together,
the Yom Kippur War broke out and changed everything. This is the story
of Ora Graiver-Dobrish, widow of one of the 2,691 soldiers who lost
their lives in the Yom Kippur War of 1973.
“If
it wasn’t for this, my life would have been so different,” says Ora
Graiver-Dobrish, widow of a Staff Sergeant Nechemia Dobrish, a soldier
who fell defending Israel in the Yom Kippur War.
Ora
and Nechemia met as teenagers in Petah Tikvah in the early 1960s.
Through school, their local Bnei Akiva youth group and a ballroom
dancing club, the two friends soon became a couple. “We were meant to be
together,” she says of her and Nechemia.
In
1965, Nechemia was drafted into the Israel Defense Forces and served in
the Artillery Corps. He was a talented soldier and even went through
the process of becoming an officer before deciding to pursue a career in
law, graduating from Tel Aviv University.
By
1973, Ora and Nechemia were married with a young son, Yaron. Nechemia
was in the process of studying for the bar exam, the last step before
becoming a lawyer. Once the Yom Kippur holiday rolled around, Nechemia
put down his law books for what he thought would be one day. The day of
Yom Kippur, however, Ora began seeing army vehicles filled with soldiers
on the street. She knew something strange was going on. A few hours
later, Nechemia himself was called up for draft duty. Nine days later,
in the midst of the Yom Kippur War, Nechemia was with his unit fighting a
battle against the Syrian army in the Golan Heights when he was shot in
the back of the thigh.
He
was immediately rushed to the intensive care unit of Ziv Hospital. That
same day, back at the Dobrish's home in Petah Tivka, Ora noticed people
lingering near her building’s entrance as she returned home from a
walk. Seconds after arriving home, there was a knock on her door. Two
officers and the family doctor were there to tell her that Nechemia was
in the hospital.
Ora
rushed to the hospital as fast as she could with Nechemia’s sister
Chava. Doctors said her husband was in critical condition, but she did
not expect the worst. “I thought it meant he had a bad injury to his arm
or leg,” she recalls. Within 48 hours, Nechemia was gone.
Ora still has the piece of shrapnel that was removed from Nechemia's leg.
Ora
became a widow at age 26, but still managed to go on with life, even
without her soulmate. Ora remains a positive person to this day despite
the tragedy she has endured. She eventually remarried, had two more
sons, one of whom is an officer in the Israel Navy, and built a career
in the insurance industry. She remains close with Nechemia’s family,
especially his sister.
To
this day, though, the loss of Nechemia in defense of the state is still
felt by those who knew him, especially his wife. “I will never forget
Yom Kippur, 1973 for as long as I live.”
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